The concept of intersubjectivity has something to say about the whole "magic secret law of attraction" philosophy...
While you are responsible for your behavior, and it is extended to encompass the consequences of that behavior, does that mean you are responsible for the behavior of others around you?
Now there is something to be said for that, there is a pattern matching force out there, if you're gloomy, it will alter how people react to you, and if you're beamingly happy it will as well.
On the other hand if you extend it too far, you're attempting to reduce the people around you to mere objects, reacting to you. Everyone else is just as much of a nihilating consciousness as you are.
At the level of the world, what we find then is a multiple coefficient of adversity as the wills of many people coalesce, this "resolves" itself into the world around us. You can't escape that. This is the cause of interpersonal anxiety, in fact. Walking down the street, a person passes you. Nothing you do internally can really prevent that person from picking up the nearby trashcan and smashing you over the head with it.
That's an exaggerated example for effect, but there's a similar ambiguity of other people's actions in all moments.
You can reframe the actions of others to some extent, and you can impose your will (pull the trashcan away, in our example), but it's like pushing your hand into putty, while everyone else is at the same time. The resulting shape of things is not entirely up to you. The best you can do is keep your own freedom in mind and not react automatically to what other people do, giving you as much control over your situation as possible. This takes a bit of practice mind you.
While you are responsible for your behavior, and it is extended to encompass the consequences of that behavior, does that mean you are responsible for the behavior of others around you?
Now there is something to be said for that, there is a pattern matching force out there, if you're gloomy, it will alter how people react to you, and if you're beamingly happy it will as well.
On the other hand if you extend it too far, you're attempting to reduce the people around you to mere objects, reacting to you. Everyone else is just as much of a nihilating consciousness as you are.
At the level of the world, what we find then is a multiple coefficient of adversity as the wills of many people coalesce, this "resolves" itself into the world around us. You can't escape that. This is the cause of interpersonal anxiety, in fact. Walking down the street, a person passes you. Nothing you do internally can really prevent that person from picking up the nearby trashcan and smashing you over the head with it.
That's an exaggerated example for effect, but there's a similar ambiguity of other people's actions in all moments.
You can reframe the actions of others to some extent, and you can impose your will (pull the trashcan away, in our example), but it's like pushing your hand into putty, while everyone else is at the same time. The resulting shape of things is not entirely up to you. The best you can do is keep your own freedom in mind and not react automatically to what other people do, giving you as much control over your situation as possible. This takes a bit of practice mind you.